Chabwino, abale ndi alongo a theka ndi alongo sali pachibale nkomwe, kotero sichingaganizidwe kukhala chinthu choipa kapena chachiwerewere. Nzosadabwitsa kuti munthu wamkulu mnyamata ndi mtsikana, popanda zibwenzi nthawi zonse zogonana ndipo pafupifupi tsiku lililonse kukhala pafupi wina ndi mzake, mwadzidzidzi anakopeka pa mlingo kugonana wina ndi mnzake. Poganizira kuti mtsikanayo ankakonda (mnyamata ndiye palibe funso), ndikuganiza kuti apitiriza kuchita zinthu zamtunduwu nthawi ndi nthawi.
Sindikudziwa za m'bale wosatopayo, ndikuganiza kuti adatopa) Alongo onse ali ndi chiyembekezo. Mmene anagwidwa ndi mayi awo komanso m’baleyo anabisala, zinaganiziridwa bwino. Koma pamene iwo anapitirira ndipo amayi, kapena aliyense yemwe iye ali ine sindikumudziwa, anali atakhala pafupi nawo, ine sindinamvetse chifukwa chimene iwo anachita izo. Zinali zabwino kuyang'ana, makamaka alongo, m'baleyo anali ngati wangokhala chete mu kopanira, pafupifupi sanawonetsedwe nkomwe.